The precise explanations of the Chanmyay method loop in my mind, making me question every movement and sensation as I struggle to stay present. The clock reads 2:04 a.m., and the ground beneath me seems unexpectedly chilled. I’m sitting with a blanket around my shoulders even though it’s not really cold, just that late-night chill that gets into your bones if you stay still too long. My neck’s stiff. I tilt it slightly, hear a soft crack, then immediately wonder if I just broke mindfulness by moving. That thought annoys me more than the stiffness itself.
The looping Echo of "Simple" Instructions
I am haunted by the echoes of Satipatthana lectures, their structure playing on a loop. The commands are simple: observe, know, stay clear, stay constant. In theory, the words are basic, but in practice—without the presence of a guide—they become incredibly complex. Without a teacher to anchor the method, the explanations feel slippery, leaving my mind to spiral into second-guessing.
I focus on the breathing, but it seems to react to being watched, becoming shallow and forced. A tightness arises in my ribs; I note it, then instantly wonder if I was just being mechanical or if I missed the "direct" experience. This pattern of doubt is a frequent visitor, triggered by the high standards of precision in the Chanmyay tradition. Precision turns into pressure when no one’s there to correct you.
Knowledge Evaporates When the Body Speaks
I feel a lingering, dull pain in my left leg; I make an effort to observe it without flinching. The mind keeps drifting off to phrases I’ve read before, things about direct knowing, bare awareness, not adding stories. I laugh quietly because even that laughter turns into something to watch. I ask: "Is this sound or sensation? Is the feeling pleasant?" But the experience vanishes before I can find a label.
I spent some time earlier reviewing my notes on the practice, which gave me a false sense of mastery. Sitting now, more info that confidence is gone. Knowledge evaporates fast when the body starts complaining. My aching joints drown out the scriptures. I crave proof that this discomfort is "progress," but I am left with only the ache.
The Heavy Refusal to Comfort
My posture is a constant struggle; I relax my shoulders, but they reflexively tighten again. The breath stutters. I feel irritation rising for no clear reason. I recognize it. Then I recognize recognizing it. Eventually, the act of "recognizing" feels like an exhausting chore. This is where Chanmyay explanations feel both helpful and heavy. They don’t comfort. There is no "it's okay" in this tradition. There is only the instruction to see what is true, over and over.
There’s a mosquito whining somewhere near my ear. I wait. I don’t move. I wait a little longer than usual. Then I swat. The emotions—anger, release, guilt—pass through me in a blur. I am too slow to catch them all. That realization lands quietly, without drama.
Experience Isn't Neat
Satipatthana sounds clean when explained. Four foundations. Clear categories. Actual reality, however, is messy and refuses to stay in its boxes. Physical pain is interwoven with frustration, and my thoughts are physically manifest as muscle tightness. I try to just feel without the "story," but my mind is a professional narrator and refuses to quit.
I glance at the clock even though I promised myself I wouldn’t. 2:12. Time is indifferent to my struggle. The sensation in my leg changes its character. I find the change in pain frustrating; I wanted a solid, static object to "study" with my mind. Instead, it remains fluid, entirely unconcerned with my spiritual labels.
The technical thoughts eventually subside, driven out by the sheer intensity of the somatic data. Warmth, compression, and prickling sensations fill my awareness. I anchor myself in the most prominent feeling. I wander off into thought, return to the breath, and wander again. No grand conclusion is reached.
I don’t feel like I understand anything better tonight. I am suspended between the "memory" of how to practice and the "act" of actually practicing. sitting in this unfinished mess, letting it be messy, because that’s what’s happening whether I approve of it or not.